Our World
About & Etiquette
Everything you need to know before stepping through our doors.
Our Philosophy
Jaydees was founded on a simple belief: adults deserve a space to explore connection freely, safely, and without judgment. We are not a nightclub. We are a carefully curated community where respect is the only currency that matters.
Every detail of our space — from the lighting to the music to the way we introduce newcomers — has been designed to make you feel at ease. We believe that the best experiences happen when everyone feels safe, seen, and respected.
Club Rules
These rules are non-negotiable and exist to protect every member of our community. Violation of any rule will result in immediate removal and permanent ban.
- No means no. Always. A soft no is still a no.
- Consent is enthusiastic, informed, and revocable at any time.
- What happens at Jaydees stays at Jaydees. Absolute discretion is required.
- No photography or recording of any kind. Phones must remain in lockers.
- Respect personal space. Do not interrupt others without invitation.
- Drink responsibly. Intoxicated behaviour will not be tolerated.
- Our staff are empowered to remove anyone, for any reason, at any time.
- People who use this venue and its associated grounds do so at their own risk.
- Membership cards are not transferable. If you arrive using a card that is not your own, you will be asked to sign up for your own or a new couples membership at the club, for which photo ID and a utility bill will be needed. If this cannot be done, you will be turned away — we need to know exactly who is in the building.
Dress Code
Smart & casual. Please dress to impress — smart, sexy and confident is the vibe! 😉
- Collared polo shirts or shirts are mandatory
- Smart jeans are welcome
- No trainers — smart black trainers only at the host's discretion
- Kink, fetish and alternative clothing are also welcome
Your First Visit
We understand that your first visit to a club like Jaydees can feel daunting. That's why every new member receives a discreet welcome tour and an introduction to our hosts, who are there to make you comfortable.
There is no pressure to participate in anything. Many members simply enjoy the atmosphere, conversation, and the freedom to be themselves. Take your time, observe, and move at your own pace.
Our bar is bring your own drink — simply hand your drinks to our bar team and they will look after them for you until you want them. Locker keys are available on arrival for a £10 deposit, which is returned to you once we have the key back.
How to Approach Others
The art of conversation is alive and well at Jaydees. If you wish to approach someone or a couple, introduce yourself politely. Compliments are welcome, but keep them tasteful. Be direct about your intentions — ambiguity creates awkwardness.