Our World
About & Etiquette
Everything you need to know before stepping through our doors.
Our Philosophy
Jaydees was founded on a simple belief: adults deserve a space to explore connection freely, safely, and without judgment. We are not a nightclub. We are a carefully curated community where respect is the only currency that matters.
Every detail of our space — from the lighting to the music to the way we introduce newcomers — has been designed to make you feel at ease. We believe that the best experiences happen when everyone feels safe, seen, and respected.
Club Rules
These rules are non-negotiable and exist to protect every member of our community. Violation of any rule will result in immediate removal and permanent ban.
- No means no. Always. A soft no is still a no.
- Consent is enthusiastic, informed, and revocable at any time.
- What happens at Jaydees stays at Jaydees. Absolute discretion is required.
- No photography or recording of any kind. Phones must remain in lockers.
- Respect personal space. Do not interrupt others without invitation.
- Drink responsibly. Intoxicated behaviour will not be tolerated.
- Our staff are empowered to remove anyone, for any reason, at any time.
Dress Code
We ask members to dress with intention. Our atmosphere is sophisticated, and your attire should reflect that.
Encouraged
- +Elegant evening wear
- +Smart casual with flair
- +Themed attire on event nights
- +Lingerie and fetish wear (in designated areas)
- +Well-fitted, quality fabrics
Not Permitted
- −Sportswear or gym clothes
- −Ripped, torn, or dirty clothing
- −Offensive slogans or imagery
- −Trainers / flip-flops in main areas
- −Day-to-day casual (jeans OK if smart)
Your First Visit
We understand that your first visit to a club like Jaydees can feel daunting. That's why every new member receives a discreet welcome tour and an introduction to our hosts, who are there to make you comfortable.
There is no pressure to participate in anything. Many members simply enjoy the atmosphere, conversation, and the freedom to be themselves. Take your time, observe, and move at your own pace.
Our bar is bring your own drink — simply hand your drinks to our bar team and they will look after them for you until you want them. Locker keys are available on arrival for a £10 deposit, which is returned to you once we have the key back.
How to Approach Others
The art of conversation is alive and well at Jaydees. If you wish to approach someone or a couple, introduce yourself politely. Compliments are welcome, but keep them tasteful. Be direct about your intentions — ambiguity creates awkwardness.